Our 84-bed shelter is a safe, supportive, temporary refuge for battered women and their children who are in immediate danger or at risk of homicide. We help women living in shelter begin recovery from the trauma of their partner's violence and to rebuild their lives. We understand that many battered women need additional tools, skills, and resources if they are to become self-sufficient and live free of violence. Making good decisions about what is in their family's best interest is a first step. But, developing and applying the skills and knowledge to become psychologically and financially independent is the crucial next one.
What's It Like To Live In Shelter?
Professionals from helping agencies and battered women alike, tell us there are many negative notions about domestic violence shelters - shelters are dingy and dirty; residents are made to leave during the day; the places are like prisons, they are unsafe. Not one word is true! The House Of Ruth Maryland's shelter is a safe place where battered women and their children live as a community dedicated to non-violence. Residents work together to keep space clean and healthy; they are assisted by housekeeping staff. The shelter is drug and alcohol free and battered women who have had substance abuse or mental health problems must be in treatment while living in shelter. Residents, staff and volunteers are equally committed to keeping the shelter location confidential to protect everyone there. Many women in shelter work; others are in job training. School-age children attend school; some others are enrolled in childcare. Trained staff is present around the clock to ensure that residents are safe and receive the support they need.
The shelter has twenty-three bright spacious, private bedrooms with baths and a large dining room and kitchen. Families help themselves to hot meals and they eat family style; licensed day care center provides child care and developmental programming for young children; large living rooms become a gathering place where women and children talk together, play games and watch movies or television.
The shelter operates a health clinic staffed by the Johns Hopkins School of Nursing that provides for the immediate medical needs of our residents; our therapeutic counseling program offers an array of individual and group counseling services. Therapists work in partnership with the health clinic and our wellness program to make sure that woman and children receive the support, counseling, and nurturing that they need. Bi-lingual staff and translators are available to help non-English speaking battered women; the shelter is accessible to disabled women and children and staff receive on-going training sensitivity to the opportunities and barriers that language, culture, religion, gender and race can create.
Services to assist victims with job training, job finding, housing, public assistance, day care outside shelter, medical and psychiatric services, tranportation, life skills and planning to transition to independence, are provided by our case manager. Legal services, including advocacy, representation and assistance with immigration issues are available shelter residents through our legal clinic.
Length Of Stay
The length of time a woman or family can live in shelter is based upon her individual needs and goals. We encourage battered women to use time at the beginning of their stay as respite, rest and sanctuary. This is the time that battered women use to look back and forward and to decide the best next course of action. Women who choose to remain in shelter beyond this period will enter the "short-term transitional" phase of the program. During this phase, we work intensively in partnership with each woman to assist her in securing income and housing. Also, we support women in utilizing the shelter's rich offering of tools and services to work through trauma, begin to plan for self-sufficiency, and expand her capacity to grow through involvement in enrichment and wellness programs.